One reason is that if there was only love and not the first and the second and third (and so) Degree love, heterosexuality would be harder to maintain. Then the small, sweet affection between heterosexual women suddenly get a different depth, an opening to something more than a friendly relationship. It's a way to stay within their "sexuality" to call I love the cute status group one of friendly love and the other for sexual love, a way to turn a blind eye to sexual undertones in friendships.
It's a strange thought, actually, that it would be possible to divide love in two different kinds of love. I mean, love is always varies depending on the relationship we have to the person we love.
I sat and thought about it while I wrote and I love the cute status group. Here's how: The community at large is heterosexual, and there is an expectation that girls and boys will grow up to become heteros. To distinguish between friendship and romance is a way to fuel it, by making it clear what is what and who is who (friend, hetero, partners, non-heterosexual). To distinguish between friendship and romance is like a must for a heterosexual practice should work, otherwise it would be very difficult to keep heterosexuality purely heterosexual, it would disappear as if all love is just love.
With that not said that it is also important for non-heteros with disconnected maintenance and categorization, on the contrary, such as homosexuality be just as rigid and normative hetero-sexuality in reverse. I took straight as an example because it is the reigning norm and my interpretation is that apart relation staged to maintain status and homo norm is a result of it, and not vice versa.Interesting comments and questions you have though I love the cute status group! Perhaps it is important to distinguish between friendship and romance to facilitate hetero creation.It is here that we are also forming love relationship in pairs of two is quite interesting that with I think. Why do we do it?
The writing Blind Lina about the romantic love relationship is more important than friendship relations is also interesting, I think! I wonder as well why we think that is important .. Would romance disappear if all relationships were equal to each other?One of the saddest difference is that when it comes to romantic love often ask the parties unreasonable demands of each other, and are expected to ask each other for permission when it comes to a lot of things in a very sick way.
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